My last entry sparks some surprising reaction from multitude of people. Most of them disagrees. While those who agreed mostly they're on the fence.
Well,here's the real story,the point is to avoid those people gossips or and judging me even more.
4 years ago,I have this special feelings with this one girl. Let's call her, S (bukan nama sebenar). I've met her online,I befriended with her and ultimately fall in love with her.
Everything was great,we laughed,cried,happy and sad together. We've met occasionally and our love feels even stronger everytime we've met. We thought we're gonna last forever. We thought we were invincible. And we thought we were made for each other.
I even told my parents (read: my whole family) about her. It took me maybe 2 month into the relationship to tell my family about it. No fuss,no worry,not scared,not afraid. I'm really sure she's the one.
While it took me 2 month to tell my parents about it,she took nearly 3 (read: tiga, three, drei, san,) years to told her parents about me. Talk about sincerity.
And then S went to the university. She like it there,she still is. The best university in Malaysia (or so she said). It was fine,I was happy for her. She made a tons of friends. She's happy.
But there's only one tiny little problem,she got carried away <--- is that even a word? (Editted: thanks Ali) Or hanyut. Or whatever it is in english. She slowly started to leave me bit by bit.
Which I tried to understand,but no. She started to take me for granted. Jap cakap melayu.
Mula mula dia macam jarang message which probably fine if tak selalu,but masa cuti pun sama,kalau nak jumpa bersua muka apalah lagi. Kitorang LDR,which means sangat sangat sangat susah nak jumpa. And everytime i've got the chance to meet her,she'll refuse to meet me without a concrete reasons. I mean come on la, I from kedah pergi kl berapa kali la sangat sekarang,and dia pun balik kl berapa kali la sangat setahun,tapi bila dua dua ada kat kl,the probability to ask her out is like 1 over 10 for her to say yes. Kena merayu macam peminta sedekah utk pujuk dia jumpa.
Come on la,do you even love me?
Which i still can tahan anyway. I too,am not perfect and fully realised that. I made a few mistakes along the way. I hurt her feelings and much much more. And for that fully apologize dan sedar my kesalahan.
And then,few month ago, we had a problem. I complain about her behaviour (yang macam nak layan taknak layan tu), and I GAVE HER A CHANCE TO CHOOSE.
I told her,that if she thinks she wanna treat me like that,just untie me. Release me from this relationship. I don't wanna be treated like that anymore. I'm not an option. I'm not your toy,only to find me when you're bored.
But if she think she changed,then don't break up with me.
Come on guys,you guys think kitorang breakup sebab I ada another girl? Haha. Well then think again.
She CHOSE to breakup with me. You read that right. You can ask her. Don't ask her friends,mereka mengumpat tapi tak tahu cerita. Ask herself.
And then,after that,there's million of time I beg. I even cried on the phone asking her to forgive me and asking her to get back with me. She turned me down. She's the one who choose to ignore me. She said it's better to be her friend.
Which I agreed sometimes after that (patah hati woi). So we were friends. A good one that is. We tried to become as what friends would do for other friends. I thought i'm okay. And i'm single btw.
Then,I baik with this new girl. Lets call her "N". N was there for me. She comfort me all the time. She's always text me,always there for me. I know she love me but at first I can't accept it. But lama lama,i too, fell for her.
Technically i'm single, and she loves me. Ada pepatah cakap better sayang orang yang sayang kita dari sayang orang yang kita sayang tapi tak sayang kita.
Well i chose N. S is great,still is and we're still friend. But maybe she's not really the one. But N is more suited for me I guess. I love her and I think she is the real one for me.
Pray for me friends.